MAJOR: ssl: add openssl async mode support

ssl-mode-async is a global configuration parameter which enables
asynchronous processing in OPENSSL for all SSL connections haproxy
handles. With SSL_MODE_ASYNC set, TLS I/O operations may indicate a
retry with SSL_ERROR_WANT_ASYNC with this mode set if an asynchronous
capable engine is used to perform cryptographic operations. Currently
async mode only supports one async-capable engine.

This is the latest version of the patchset which includes Emeric's
updates :
  - improved async fd cleaning when openssl reports an fd to delete
  - prevent conn_fd_handler from calling SSL_{read,write,handshake} until
    the async fd is ready, as these operations are very slow and waste CPU
  - postpone of SSL_free to ensure the async operation can complete and
    does not cause a dereference a released SSL.
  - proper removal of async fd from the fdtab and removal of the unused async
    flag.
diff --git a/include/proto/connection.h b/include/proto/connection.h
index 2380bb8..235671e 100644
--- a/include/proto/connection.h
+++ b/include/proto/connection.h
@@ -502,6 +502,10 @@
 	conn->target = NULL;
 	conn->proxy_netns = NULL;
 	LIST_INIT(&conn->list);
+
+#if OPENSSL_VERSION_NUMBER >= 0x1010000fL
+	conn->async_fd = -1;
+#endif
 }
 
 /* Tries to allocate a new connection and initialized its main fields. The