[BUILD] fix 2 minor issues on AIX

AIX does not know about MSG_DONTWAIT. Fortunately, nearly all sockets
are already set to O_NONBLOCK, so it's not even required to change the
code.  It was only necessary to add this fcntl to the log socket which
lacked it.  The MSG_DONTWAIT value has been defined to zero when unset
in order to make the code cleaner and more portable.

Also, on AIX, "hz" is defined, which causes a problem with one function
parameter in time.c. It's enough to rename the parameter there. Last,
fix a missing #include <string.h> in proxy.c.
diff --git a/src/proxy.c b/src/proxy.c
index 640a2c1..06424c6 100644
--- a/src/proxy.c
+++ b/src/proxy.c
@@ -12,6 +12,7 @@
 
 #include <fcntl.h>
 #include <unistd.h>
+#include <string.h>
 #include <sys/types.h>
 #include <sys/socket.h>
 #include <sys/stat.h>