BUG/MINOR: deinit/threads: make hard-stop-after perform a clean exit

As reported in GH issue #99, when hard-stop-after triggers and threads
are in use, the chance that any thread releases the resources in use by
the other ones is non-null. Thus no thread should be allowed to deinit()
nor exit by itself.

Here we take a different approach. We simply use a 3rd possible value
for the "killed" variable so that all threads know they must break out
of the run-poll-loop and immediately stop.

This patch was tested by commenting the stream_shutdown() calls in
hard_stop() to increase the chances to see a stream use released
resources. With this fix applied, it never crashes anymore.

This fix should be backported to 1.9 and 1.8.
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