BUG/MINOR: contrib/mod_security: fix build on FreeBSD

Fix linker flags settings since 3rd parties libraries are not in
/usr/lib
Plus libfuzzy needs to be added.
undef LIST_HEAD from event2 which conflicts with haproxy's
diff --git a/contrib/modsecurity/spoa.h b/contrib/modsecurity/spoa.h
index daee6d2..d618f9b 100644
--- a/contrib/modsecurity/spoa.h
+++ b/contrib/modsecurity/spoa.h
@@ -20,6 +20,8 @@
 #ifndef __SPOA_H__
 #define __SPOA_H__
 
+#include <sys/queue.h>
+
 #include <event2/util.h>
 #include <event2/event.h>
 #include <event2/event_struct.h>