BUG/MEDIUM: connection: properly leave stopping list on error

The stopping-list management introduced by commit d3a88c1c3 ("MEDIUM:
connection: close front idling connection on soft-stop") missed two
error paths in the H1 and H2 muxes. The effect is that if a stream
or HPACK table couldn't be allocated for these incoming connections,
we would leave with the connection freed still attached to the
stopping_list and it would never leave it, resulting in use-after-free
hence either a crash or a data corruption.

This is marked as medium as it only happens under extreme memory pressure
or when playing with tune.fail-alloc. Other stability issues remain in
such a case so that abnormal behaviors cannot be explained by this bug
alone.

This must be backported to 2.4.

(cherry picked from commit 3b990fe0bee3072cb70c965c202707cdad0f29cd)
Signed-off-by: Willy Tarreau <w@1wt.eu>
(cherry picked from commit b8c9a5fc68c7fa5e0047b087673b547dd16a7a14)
Signed-off-by: Willy Tarreau <w@1wt.eu>
diff --git a/src/mux_h1.c b/src/mux_h1.c
index c2dc808..41bd4dc 100644
--- a/src/mux_h1.c
+++ b/src/mux_h1.c
@@ -884,6 +884,8 @@
 		tasklet_free(h1c->wait_event.tasklet);
 	pool_free(pool_head_h1c, h1c);
  fail_h1c:
+	if (!conn_is_back(conn))
+		LIST_DEL_INIT(&conn->stopping_list);
 	conn->ctx = conn_ctx; // restore saved context
 	TRACE_DEVEL("leaving in error", H1_EV_H1C_NEW|H1_EV_H1C_END|H1_EV_H1C_ERR);
 	return -1;
diff --git a/src/mux_h2.c b/src/mux_h2.c
index 6bf5c14..3bbaabe 100644
--- a/src/mux_h2.c
+++ b/src/mux_h2.c
@@ -1041,6 +1041,8 @@
 		tasklet_free(h2c->wait_event.tasklet);
 	pool_free(pool_head_h2c, h2c);
   fail_no_h2c:
+	if (!conn_is_back(conn))
+		LIST_DEL_INIT(&conn->stopping_list);
 	conn->ctx = conn_ctx; /* restore saved ctx */
 	TRACE_DEVEL("leaving in error", H2_EV_H2C_NEW|H2_EV_H2C_END|H2_EV_H2C_ERR);
 	return -1;