BUG/MAJOR: server: fix deadlock when changing maxconn via agent-check

The server_parse_maxconn_change_request locks the server lock. However,
this function can be called via agent-checks or lua code which already
lock it. This bug has been introduced by the following commit :

  commit 79a88ba3d09f7e2b73ae27cb5d24cc087a548fa6
  BUG/MAJOR: server: prevent deadlock when using 'set maxconn server'

This commit tried to fix another deadlock with can occur because
previoulsy server_parse_maxconn_change_request requires the server lock
to be held. However, it may call internally process_srv_queue which also
locks the server lock. The locking policy has thus been updated. The fix
is functional for the CLI 'set maxconn' but fails to address the
agent-check / lua counterparts.

This new issue is fixed in two steps :
- changes from the above commit have been reverted. This means that
  server_parse_maxconn_change_request must again be called with the
  server lock.

- to counter the deadlock fixed by the above commit, process_srv_queue
  now takes an argument to render the server locking optional if the
  caller already held it. This is only used by
  server_parse_maxconn_change_request.

The above commit was subject to backport up to 1.8. Thus this commit
must be backported in every release where it is already present.

(cherry picked from commit 0274286dd3768c0d5e58588a1cb7e7e710fbc9d4)
Signed-off-by: Christopher Faulet <cfaulet@haproxy.com>
(cherry picked from commit caaafd055edcbceb3d57ed9672b90900ec52a203)
Signed-off-by: Christopher Faulet <cfaulet@haproxy.com>
diff --git a/src/backend.c b/src/backend.c
index 3181e74..c716ebb 100644
--- a/src/backend.c
+++ b/src/backend.c
@@ -819,7 +819,7 @@
 			sess_change_server(s, srv);
 		} else {
 			if (may_dequeue_tasks(conn_slot, s->be))
-				process_srv_queue(conn_slot);
+				process_srv_queue(conn_slot, 0);
 		}
 	}
 
@@ -1734,7 +1734,7 @@
 
 		/* release other streams waiting for this server */
 		if (may_dequeue_tasks(srv, s->be))
-			process_srv_queue(srv);
+			process_srv_queue(srv, 0);
 		return 1;
 	}
 	/* if we get here, it's because we got SRV_STATUS_OK, which also
@@ -1810,7 +1810,7 @@
 			/* release other streams waiting for this server */
 			sess_change_server(s, NULL);
 			if (may_dequeue_tasks(srv, s->be))
-				process_srv_queue(srv);
+				process_srv_queue(srv, 0);
 
 			/* Failed and not retryable. */
 			si_shutr(si);
@@ -2138,7 +2138,7 @@
 		_HA_ATOMIC_ADD(&s->be->be_counters.failed_conns, 1);
 		sess_change_server(s, NULL);
 		if (may_dequeue_tasks(objt_server(s->target), s->be))
-			process_srv_queue(objt_server(s->target));
+			process_srv_queue(objt_server(s->target), 0);
 
 		/* shutw is enough so stop a connecting socket */
 		si_shutw(si);