DOC: improve the wording in CONTRIBUTING about how to document a bug fix

Insufficiently described bug fixes are still too frequent. It's a real
pain to create each new maintenance release, as 3/4 of the time is spent
trying to guess what problem a patch fixes, which is already important
in order to decide whether to pick the fix or not, but is even more
capital in order to write understandable release notes.

Christopher rightfully demands that a patch tagged "BUG" MUST ABSOLUTELY
describe the problem and why this problem is a bug. Describing the fix
is one thing but if the bug is unknown, why would there be a fix ? How
can a stable maintainer be convinced to take a fix if its author didn't
care about checking whether it was a real bug ? This patch tries to
explain a bit better what really needs to appear in the commit message
and how to describe a bug.

To be backported to all relevant stable versions.
diff --git a/CONTRIBUTING b/CONTRIBUTING
index 0fcd921..201e122 100644
--- a/CONTRIBUTING
+++ b/CONTRIBUTING
@@ -454,7 +454,18 @@
 
 11) Real commit messages please!
 
-   Please properly format your commit messages. To get an idea, just run
+   The commit message is how you're trying to convince a maintainer to adopt
+   your work and maintain it as long as possible. A dirty commit message almost
+   always comes with dirty code. Too short a commit message indicates that too
+   short an analysis was done and that side effects are extremely likely to be
+   encountered. It's the maintainer's job to decide to accept this work in its
+   current form or not, with the known constraints. Some patches which rework
+   architectural parts or fix sensitive bugs come with 20-30 lines of design
+   explanations, limitations, hypothesis or even doubts, and despite this it
+   happens when reading them 6 months later while trying to identify a bug that
+   developers still miss some information about corner cases.
+
+   So please properly format your commit messages. To get an idea, just run
    "git log" on the file you've just modified. Patches always have the format
    of an e-mail made of a subject, a description and the actual patch. If you
    are sending a patch as an e-mail formatted this way, it can quickly be
@@ -506,9 +517,17 @@
 
    But in any case, it is important that there is a clean description of what
    the patch does, the motivation for what it does, why it's the best way to do
-   it, its impacts, and what it does not yet cover. Also, in HAProxy, like many
-   projects which take a great care of maintaining stable branches, patches are
-   reviewed later so that some of them can be backported to stable releases.
+   it, its impacts, and what it does not yet cover. And this is particularly
+   important for bugs. A patch tagged "BUG" must absolutely explain what the
+   problem is, why it is considered as a bug. Anybody, even non-developers,
+   should be able to tell whether or not a patch is likely to address an issue
+   they are facing. Indicating what the code will do after the fix doesn't help
+   if it does not say what problem is encountered without the patch. Note that
+   in some cases the bug is purely theorical and observed by reading the code.
+   In this case it's perfectly fine to provide an estimate about possible
+   effects. Also, in HAProxy, like many projects which take a great care of
+   maintaining stable branches, patches are reviewed later so that some of them
+   can be backported to stable releases.
 
    While reviewing hundreds of patches can seem cumbersome, with a proper
    formatting of the subject line it actually becomes very easy. For example,
@@ -630,13 +649,23 @@
 
   - BUG      fix for a bug. The severity of the bug should also be indicated
              when known. Similarly, if a backport is needed to older versions,
-             it should be indicated on the last line of the commit message. If
-             the bug has been identified as a regression brought by a specific
-             patch or version, this indication will be appreciated too. New
-             maintenance releases are generally emitted when a few of these
-             patches are merged. If the bug is a vulnerability for which a CVE
-             identifier was assigned before you publish the fix, you can mention
-             it in the commit message, it will help distro maintainers.
+             it should be indicated on the last line of the commit message. The
+             commit message MUST ABSOLUTELY describe the problem and its impact
+             to non-developers. Any user must be able to guess if this patch is
+             likely to fix a problem they are facing. Even if the bug was
+             discovered by accident while reading the code or running an
+             automated tool, it is mandatory to try to estimate what potential
+             issue it might cause and under what circumstances. There may even
+             be security implications sometimes so a minimum analysis is really
+             required. Also please think about stable maintainers who have to
+             build the release notes, they need to have enough input about the
+             bug's impact to explain it. If the bug has been identified as a
+             regression brought by a specific patch or version, this indication
+             will be appreciated too. New maintenance releases are generally
+             emitted when a few of these patches are merged. If the bug is a
+             vulnerability for which a CVE identifier was assigned before you
+             publish the fix, you can mention it in the commit message, it will
+             help distro maintainers.
 
   - CLEANUP  code cleanup, silence of warnings, etc... theoretically no impact.
              These patches will rarely be seen in stable branches, though they