MAJOR: sepoll: make the poller totally event-driven

At the moment sepoll is not 100% event-driven, because a call to fd_set()
on an event which is already being polled will not change its state.

This causes issues with OpenSSL because if some I/O processing is interrupted
after clearing the I/O event (eg: read all data from a socket, can't put it
all into the buffer), then there is no way to call the SSL_read() again once
the buffer releases some space.

The only real solution is to go 100% event-driven. The principle is to use
the spec list as an event cache and that each time an I/O event is reported
by epoll_wait(), this event is automatically scheduled for addition to the
spec list for future calls until the consumer explicitly asks for polling
or stopping.

Doing this is a bit tricky because sepoll used to provide a substantial
number of optimizations such as event merging. These optimizations have
been maintained : a dedicated update list is affected when events change,
but not the event list, so that updates may cancel themselves without any
side effect such as displacing events. A specific case was considered for
handling newly created FDs as soon as they are detected from within the
poll loop. This ensures that their read or write operation will always be
attempted as soon as possible, thus reducing the number of poll loops and
process_session wakeups. This is especially true for newly accepted fds
which immediately perform their first recv() call.

Two new flags were added to the fdtab[] struct to tag the fact that a file
descriptor already exists in the update list. One flag indicates that a
file descriptor is new and has just been created (fdtab[].new) and the other
one indicates that a file descriptor is already referenced by the update list
(fdtab[].updated). Even if the FD state changes during operations or if the
fd is closed and replaced, it's not an issue because the update flag remains
and is easily spotted during list walks. The flag must absolutely reflect the
presence of the fd in the update list in order to avoid overflowing the update
list with more events than there are distinct fds.

Note that this change also recovers the small performance loss introduced
by its connection counter-part and goes even beyond.
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